
We had chosen a family run guest house right by Assi ghat, the southernmost set of stone steps leading into the river Ganges. For the entire taxi ride, sat in a rusty old Ambassador and weaving between rickshaws, we were being told how dirty and quiet our choice was but how fortunately our very friendly co-driver knew an excellent place we could stay. They seemed perplexed when we insisted on our intended destination and thankfully we had an incredibly friendly welcome which was much needed after our

previous 24 hours. What this welcome also meant was that while we were checking in, the father of the house got rather excited by the fact that our surnames were the same, with tradition dictating that a wife takes her husbands name the same in India. This simple detail prompted a long discussion regarding the sanctity of marriage, the difference in Indian and Western courting customs and accepted practice and the caste system as a whole. It was very interesting but all we wanted was a shower after 29 hours sat on

some form of transport. We left it until the evening before braving the walk along the river, collapsing for most of the remaining hours of daylight, having heard of the nightly fire ceremony downstream at the main ghat. I have to admit to a twinge of disappointment initially as the riverbank, the supposed center of city life, appeared near enough deserted. This may have had something to do with the complete lack of lighting and this disappointment soon turned to fascination when we came across the diplomatically named

"Small Burning Ghat". The small fires were not there to provide warmth but rather contained corpses at varying stages of cremation, the wrapped body (red for a woman, white for a man) clearly visible in some, being licked by flames. A procession arrived soon after us, the male relatives carrying a simple stretcher on their shoulders supporting the deceased draped in ornate fabrics. No women were present which we later learnt was due to the habit of jumping onto the pyre to join their husband or son. After arriving the procession moved into the water, the holy Ganges washing any sin from the corpse, and then placed the stretcher by the waiting pyre and uncovering the face of their relative. At

this point the body appeared to be left, ignored for around 5 minutes though I did not watch whet the living were doing. After being placed on the wooden platform the entire body, save a loin cloth, was exposed to allow a final blessing or offering of oil and dyes. The entire affair is orchestrated by members of the "untouchable" caste, the lowest of all, whose responsibility it is to construct the pyres and manage the burning. We also learnt that anyone not able to afford the wood for the cremation may use leftovers from others or be content with the much cheaper government electric cremation service which is however very much frowned

upon. It is possible that death is the final major taboo in western society, hidden as it is from everyday life. Watching the process in the gloaming on the banks of such a mighty river felt incredibly voyeuristic, uncomfortable and intrusive yet at the same time was fascinating and difficult to drag your eyes away from the events as they unfolded. What would be an intensely private affair back home was very much an everyday spectacle here and we were not given a second glance. This final stage in a persons life is only one part of a bigger picture in Varanasi, a city where death

is ever present. Not only does the Gange purify the soul (a great irony given the level of pollution including excrement and ridiculously high levels of heavy metals), it is also believed that anyone who dies in Varanasi immediately gains enlightenment and therefor escapes the cycle of rebirth. What this means in practice is that many of the countries elderly travel great distances to live out their final days on the streets or in shelters simply waiting for death. After all this the fire ceremony was lively, loud and very busy with hordes of tourists and the devout crowding the banks and river itself in wooden row boats of all sizes.

A much needed lie-in was the order for the first morning and so fully rejuvenated we again wondered along the slightly busier ghats and into the maze of alleys that make up the labyrinthine old town. Needless to say we did not find the temples and mosque that were marked on the map but are banned to foreigners anyway. We retreated from the heat of the day before meandering to the nearby monkey temple and 2 others whose name I forget. After the beauty of the Buddhist monasteries the Hindu buildings of

worship are rather plain but interesting places for people watching being very much sites of active daily worship. Ignoring the complaints of the shoe keepers for not giving 10 rupees/pair we failed to avoid getting ourselves "dotted" on the forehead with red dye. A trip to Varanasi is not complete without a morning boat trip to view the glorious sunrise illuminating the ghats and the thousands of locals in golden light. The swarming masses were busy washing body, teeth and clothes, praying silently while

cupping the sacred water, cleansing the spirit with repeat submersion (the women fully clothed, the med in loin clothes); and all this accompanied by general chit-chat, news and rumour gathering. It is during the cooler hours of morning and preceeding sunset that the river is at its most lively with the 2 hours flying by. Amy decided to spend the rest of the day at the guesthouse, having broken her longest illness-free period since arriving in Beijing, and so I took myself off to the holy site of Sarnath, the location of Buddas first teaching. Hiring a rickshaw for the round trip I fo

und myself racing along the streets to an Indian Bollywood soundtrack, my boy-racer driver having installed a large speaker on the back shelf. While the ruins were pleasant enough with only a single large stupa still standing, of more interest was the Jain temple and the desciple there who was more than happy to sit and explain the nature of the religion with its naked gurus who sweep the way before every step and never wash so as not to kill even the smallest bacteria. Having more or less recovered by the following morning Amy and I were both set for the overnight train to Agra which allowed the day for relaxation and getting lost in the streets adjacent to the river.